Will I Be Legally Responsible for a Baby if My Pregnant Partner Is Not Married to Me?
Scared about what’s next regarding your responsibility as a father? The reality of being a father can be intimidating. We understand, and you are not alone.
Most of the time, legal responsibility is assigned to the mother at birth automatically. However, as the biological father, you also have certain rights and responsibilities, particularly once paternity is established.
What if Paternity is Established?
Establishing paternity means legally determining that you are the child’s biological father. This can be done in several ways, including:
- Signing a voluntary acknowledgment of paternity at birth
- Filing for a paternity test through the court
If paternity is established, you are then legally and financially responsible for your child.
You Will Always be a Father
Learning that you’re going to be a dad can bring a flood of emotions, especially if the future feels uncertain. Even if you don’t acquire legal or parental rights, your biological connection remains. That truth carries weight, and it’s something worth talking through with someone you trust.
While the truth can seem like a lot to take in, you will always be a father, whether you have a relationship with your child or not. You get to decide what your future looks like.
If you have questions or need help processing what’s next, you’re not alone. We can connect you with trusted community resources for support, fatherhood programs, or someone to talk to about your situation. Everything is confidential, and we’re here to point you in the right direction.
Talk Safely & Confidentially
Navigating an unexpected pregnancy with your partner can be overwhelming. If you need to access services for your partner in a safe and non-judgmental space, we are here for you.
Schedule a free and confidential appointment to feel heard, equipped for what’s next, and supported. We are here for you no matter what.
